Tuesday 18 September 2012

A Practical Means of Comfort

There is a sense in which it is very easy to become so spiritual that we cease to be of practical help to others.  Reformed spirituality is the most practical form that spirituality takes.  The milk of human kindness ought to flow through us to others in need, whether is it by visiting them, preparing meals, looking after children or the elderly, taking them out for a walk or shopping, or a thousand and one other practical things.

But there is a very simple something that can be done by yourself, if you are up to it, and that is to get yourself a house dog to keep you company.  This creature will be with you at all times, will welcome you when you come into the house after being out, will lie beside you on the floor, will beg for food when you're eating, will take you out for a walk, and will bring a ray of sunshine into your life.

This is exactly what we found with our new house dog, Connie.  She is a ruby King Charles Cavalier Spaniel.  My wife finds her to be a very positive distraction from her other concerns, and gives her an interest.  She follows her about the house and my wife always calls for her when she hides underneath the table, etc.

But it is possible to understand your dog in such a way that it makes the relationship more beneficial to all concerned.  Visit this website and have a look at the suggestions that Murray Haven makes as you try to get to know your dog better.  This is a relatively new book which I came across quite recently and I want to share its insights with you. 

If you are feeling stressed and crushed by your current circumstances, anything that will ease the pressure will be welcomed.  If you feel you cannot clear your mind from your pressing problems, then a positive distraction will help enormously.  This book will point you in the direction to do just that.

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